New Year Resolutions

Be human.
Avoid outrageous and unreasonable expectations for yourself and others. Demanding so much from others is unfair and will just generate frustration towards them. Realize people are just that: people. They change and grow from one moment to the next. Stop expecting yourself to be a perfect person and holding yourself to unreasonable standards; no one is measuring you by them, only yourself.

Communicate.
Let your guard down and open up to others; you have to share yourself and meet people half-way. Being more confident and comfortable with yourself will let you talk and connect to people around you much easier. You constantly expect people to understand your cryptic thoughts and messages and then blame them when they don't. You want to people to understand you so be more clear in what you say and mean.

Follow through.
Take command of what you want to do and what you say you will do. You have the most control over your actions and your situations. You shouldn't depend so much on others to help you. Nothing has to be perfect from the start. Working through your struggles will only strengthen you and help you learn. Stop demanding fresh starts and making excuses to justify giving up.

Don't be so vulgar.
Have more respect for yourself and those around you. Use discretion in not only what you say but how you say it. Develop your vocabulary so you aren't using slang or curses to describe everything.